Uncovered • Couples’ Homework
Please take some time over the next two weeks and discuss the questions below with your spouse. Feel free to go on a date and discuss all of these questions at one time or spend some time each night discussing 1-2 questions. The point is to spend intentional time getting to know your spouse even more.
Level 1: Information (What You Know)
What day of your life would you most like to relive? Why?
What was the best gift you ever received as a child?
What was your first paying job? What do you remember most about it?
If you could go to college (for the 1st time or return), what would you study?
What is your most vivid memory of fun and laughter with your spouse?
Level 2: Opinion (What You think)
Who is one of your heroes? Why?
Just for the fun/thrill of it, before I die, I’d like to _____.
I wish, before I got married, someone had told me _____.
Who was the best boss you ever had? What made them so great?
Who was one of the most interesting people you or your family ever entertained?
Level 3: Feelings (Who You Are)
When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
An emotion I often feel but don’t usually express is _____.
In what area do you feel most disconnected in your marriage?
If you could change only one thing about your marriage to create more intimacy, what would you change?
What are some things your spouse can do to make you feel honored?