Dealing With It • Part 1

One thing we all have in common, whether you're a Christian or some other religion or maybe no religion at all: No matter who you are or who you are with, “it” happens. What is this “it” for you and how do you deal with “it”?

Large Group

  1. Regarding conflict in general, which reaction describes you best; “Bring it on!” or “I’m running!”?
  2. As a teenager, describe the biggest fight you were ever in.
  3. Conflict with those who are with you is fueled by the conflict going on within you. How have your own internal and personal conflicts affected those you love most, and what have been the results?
  4. Read James 4:1. What are some of the ways you blame the conflict in your life on others instead of dealing with what is causing the conflict in you? Where have you had persistent conflict that you haven’t been able to see the part you are playing in it?
  5. Read James 4:2. Why is it so much easier to see that conflict comes as a result of selfishness in others, and not be able to recognize the selfishness at play in our own conflict?
  6. Is there an area of conflict in your life right now that you need to deal with? Which step of addressing conflict do you think will be the most difficult as you begin dealing with it?  (Admit it / Own your part / Take it to God) Share how you will approach this technique this week. Be as specific as you feel comfortable.

Small Group

  1. Read James 4:2-3. You’ve used the phrase, “Honest to God” about many things in the past. Describe the experience when you identified “it” honestly to God. Is there another “it” that we can pray together about? This week, how can this group help you begin to “Take it to God”?
  2. Pastor James said, “Pour out your heart to God with the same emotion you pour out your frustration on everybody else?” Have you tried doing that and how has that worked out for you?

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