It's Not Like That • Part 3

Judging Others :: Matthew 7:1-5

Nobody likes to be judged or criticized. There’s a tension in our culture between people who judge too harshly and those who feel we shouldn’t judge people at all. So where’s the balance?  In Jesus’ day it was no different. One day Jesus spoke some powerful words on judging others.  To both audiences He stated, “It’s not like that.”

Large Group

1.     Talk about a time when your first impression of a person was wrong. How did what you later learned about that person change your relationship with him or her?

2.     Read Matthew 7:1–5. What is one group of people you tend to judge? Why is it so tempting for you to judge them?

3.     What would it look like for you to be heartbroken over the sin of the people you identified in the previous question instead of simply judging them? How can their sin help you to recognize your own sin?

4.     When you size others up, do you tend to write them off (condemn them) or walk away (avoid their problems)? Why do you think you respond the way you do?

5.     Have you been sized up recently but refused to listen and instead wrote the person off as being judgmental? If so, what is one thing you can do this week to listen to the feedback you’ve received and begin to make changes?


Small Group

1.     Who is one person you need to stop writing off or walking away from? What is one thing you can do this week to put aside judgment and love that person? How can this group help and support you?


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Week 2 | Serve with Blessed Assurance on July 16

Week 3 | Sign up to serve next month with the Bridge or Mobile Ministry

Week 4 | Stop by the Sending Zone to learn more about 2C after the weekend service.

Week 5 | Participate in the Manna Bag "Make & Take" on July 30/31!